Day 20 March 6

Neither David nor I have been to a military funeral before, but it was just as you would see on TV or movies. Due to different traditions of the many branches of the military, they had small unique aspects to their division, but overall the service was the same. Within the service, the men lined either side of the walls and by two’s, they met in the middle at James’s casket, removed a pin, and set it with him. It was incredibly touching to see these men that serve our nation show such genuine and sincere emotion to their fallen comrade and his family. The service was one of hope when the pastor shared James’s acceptance of Christ as his Savior when he was in youth group and how his life after that was an example of that commitment. He became the rock of his family and stronghold in his marriage. The pastor spoke of hope that while he may not live here on this earth, he is living eternally with God where one day we may all meet up with him.

After the service, we became part of the funeral procession to the cemetery. The surprise of the day was the outpouring of support within the community, as the streets were lined with men and women of all ages with flags raised paying tribute to James. It was incredibly touching and only those who were part of it would understand the emotions it evoked. The cemetery service included beautiful playing of the bagpipes and taps, a 21-gun salute, folding of the flags which were presented to James’s mothers and wife, and a “hooyah” to James and his deep sea division. It was a moment that will live with us forever.

We returned home and relaxed for the rest of the evening, refueling for the work we’ll start tomorrow.